In the good old days, sugar babies often served as arm candy for closeted gay men. Today, not so much. That means that you have to deal with the subject of sex, and I don’t mean lying there and letting him do what he’s gonna do. If sugar daddies wanted that, they’d go home to their wives (who are already paid for).
Ditto for 'platonic' relationships, which consist of sitting in cafes, coffee shops, restaurants, and bars waiting for sugar daddies/mommas that never show up.
Sugar daddies expect you to make the first move, second move, and every other move. If you don’t know many good tricks (or any), learn some (see notes and links in future posts; when in doubt, Google is your friend). Like any other job, getting good at this takes practice.
You can’t wait for the daddy to indicate that they want sex - by then, they’re already frustrated (again, they can get that at home). Your whole job is dedicated to giving them what they can’t get at home - ACFGO:
Sugar daddies expect you to make the first move, second move, and every other move. If you don’t know many good tricks (or any), learn some (see notes and links in future posts; when in doubt, Google is your friend). Like any other job, getting good at this takes practice.
You can’t wait for the daddy to indicate that they want sex - by then, they’re already frustrated (again, they can get that at home). Your whole job is dedicated to giving them what they can’t get at home - ACFGO:
- Attention
- Conversation
- Flirting
- Gratitude
- Oral Sex
If you specialize in older clients, you already know that the basic ickyness of the age difference balances against the fact that they expect sex less often, don’t have the energy (or the joints) for anything involving a trapeze, and are just grateful that someone pays attention to them who isn’t in their will. Old customers don’t mind shopping, they appreciate being appreciated, and even a tiny bit of flattery goes a long way.
Check out the sugar baby dating sites - it’s easy to see that the sugar babies who make the most money and seem the most comfortable focus on older men.
If this isn’t for you, the next best demographic to focus on is daddies that work ridiculous hours, otherwise known as entrepreneurs. Their first loyalty is to their job/company, which is why they're estranged from their families. You are just what passes for social interaction so they don’t start talking to themselves. Interactions will tend to be brief, focused, and simple: Dinner and a fuck - and a monthly allowance, of course - and then your time is your own again.
Check out the sugar baby dating sites - it’s easy to see that the sugar babies who make the most money and seem the most comfortable focus on older men.
If this isn’t for you, the next best demographic to focus on is daddies that work ridiculous hours, otherwise known as entrepreneurs. Their first loyalty is to their job/company, which is why they're estranged from their families. You are just what passes for social interaction so they don’t start talking to themselves. Interactions will tend to be brief, focused, and simple: Dinner and a fuck - and a monthly allowance, of course - and then your time is your own again.
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