Rule #9: Make sure someone knows where you are AT ALL TIMES!

It’s not a coincidence that serial killers prey on sex workers more than any other victim type. More than 1 out of every 5 their victims fall in this category.

It's easy to see why: Women tend to be less physically strong than men, are less likely to carry weapons, and sugar babies (who often need to be discreet) are less likely to scream or let someone know who they’re out with and/or where. And sex workers - yes, including sugar babies - are less likely to be missed.

Hard to pick a more likely target than that.

It’s not just about meeting a potential daddy/mommy in public the first time. Most people are terrible judges of character, and even a creep can usually keep it together over a cup of coffee. Just ask Ted Bundy’s dates, many of whom thought he was charming, only you can’t because they’re all dead.

1. Be smart. Only meet in public, and in places where there are cameras. Get your date's real name, occupation, and at least a rough idea of where they live. Text it to someone you trust while still on the first date.

2. Be prepared. Carry mace and/or a taser, if your state allows it. Carry an airhorn, a rape whistle, or some other siren if it doesn't. A box cutter can be handy, too. Guns are too easily seized by attackers.

3. Plan your check-ins. Let a relative or a friend know where you're going (even if not with whom or why). Use an app so someone you trust can see where you are at all times. Let them know when you plan to be home, and text them if you are running late.

Does this seem a little much? Think of it as basic workplace safety. Would you rather be slightly embarrassed or have your remains end up in a barrel filled with acid or concrete?

Unfortunately, those are the only two choices currently available.